Week 23: Time to think about asking to hear your friends' birth stories.

BirthWatch Tips
  • Experts now recommend that right after birth, a healthy newborn should be placed skin-to-skin on the mother's abdomen or chest and should be dried and covered with warm blankets. Any care that needs to be done immediately after birth can be done with your baby skin-to-skin on your chest. As midwife Ina May Gaskin says, you're entitled to "keep your prize." Lamaze International
  • Try changing your shoes several times a day if you find your feet hurting and consider wearing support hose if you need to stand for long periods of the day.
  • Swelling in your ankles can be alleviated with support stockings and frequent elevation of the legs.
  • You might find that many women want to tell you their pregnancy and birth experiences. Women retain the memories of the pregnancies and births in vivid detail for the rest of their lives.
  • If you have round ligament pain, a sharp or pulling sensation on one side of your lower belly when you twist, bend, or reach, get into the habit of moving a little slower and supporting your belly with your hands when you move from sitting or laying down. Moist heat from a heating pad or rice sock can also help relax the ligaments that are causing pain. BabyCenter.com
  • Listen to your body and follow it's lead. If you're tired, rest. If you're hungry, eat. Try to really listen to your body's signals: Do you want a fresh pear, a tall glass of milk, or a tuna fish sandwich? Those cravings often mean your body needs that essential nutrient.
  • Social support during pregnancy and especially early parenthood is vitally important to your mental health and emotional well-being. During pregnancy, it's a good idea to widen your social network with women who understand what you're going through and what you'll need during the postpartum period.

Tips for Week 22

Tips for Week 24

BirthWatch Recommends:

Deliver This!: Make the Childbirth Choice That's Right for You..No Matter What Everyone Else Thinks

I'm a huge fan of this book. By using story telling and offering women's viewpoints from across the spectrum of choices and experiences, Marisa Cohen helps women understand WHY women make the choices they do. If you find yourself flat-out confused by why some women intend on birthing in a certain way, give this book a read and take a walk in someone else's shoes to understand their choices.

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